avere fede: I am an observer.
I’m the kind of person who stands in the back, observing everything that goes around me. I do not need to be in the spot light to be happy, yet I don’t like to be in the back where everything is dark and silent. I usually see more than others because I notice things…
However, whether you talk to or observe somebody, you’ll always be wrong in your initial judgement, as we hardly get to know anybody. You can spend your entire life discovering new things about the people you know, every single day; everybody shows people a very small part of what they really are, and most let very few people in. The difference between talking to somebody, and just observe them, is that people usually talk about who they want to be, and not about who they are. They usually don’t fake the little details in their behavior.
